Christine A. Adams 
Holy Relationships [EPUB ebook] 
Discovering the Spiritual Edge of Intimacy

Introduction

What Is a Holy Relationship?

Guidelines

    God’s Will for You Is Joy

    Find Your Own Joy! 

    God Gives You Power and Light

Acceptance Is the Key to Peace

Always Ask: ‘Is This the Loving Thing to Do?’

Each Person Must Travel Their Own

Teach Only Love

Make No Demands!

Tear Drives Out Love!

Do Not Be Afraid

You Are a Child of God

Your Lover Is a Child of God

Love without Conditions

God Loves All of Us

Hold Your Relationship Sacred

You Can Mend Your Relationship

Love Consciously-Live in the Moment

Forgiveness Is Essential in Your Relationship

Forgive Yourself First

Forgiveness Is a Spiritual Happening!

Forgiveness Is a Gift to You

Learn from Forgiveness

Let Go of Resentment and Anger

Let Go of Guilt

Truth Is Essential

Be Honest!

Be Honest about Your Tears

Trust First, Test Later

Live without Expectations

Eliminate Pressure and Demands

Detach with Love

Deal with Your Anger

Deal with Anger Quickly 

Find Out Where Your Anger Comes From 

Feel Your Feelings 

Develop Emotional Maturity 

Let Your Lover Own Their Own Feelings 

Know Your Needs and Express Them 

Peace Is Your Most Important Goal 

Practices 

Handling Confrontations 

When Do You Confront? 

Do I Understand the Issue? 

You Do Not Always Have to Agree 

Maintain a Spiritual Presence 

Keep Your Own Autonomy 

Dependent or Independent? 

Maintain a Balance 

Negotiate Your Issues 

Ask: How Important Is It? 

Stand Firm When Needed 

Compromise When Needed 

Be Silent When Needed 

Avoid Punitive Silence 

Don’t Sulk in the Corner 

Apologize 

Listen 

Take Time and Space 

Reflection 

Feed Your Soul 

Ask God for Help 

Prayer 

Honor Special Moments 

Touch 

Nonsexual Touch 

Sensual Touching 

Be Sexual 

Take Care of Sexual Needs 

Have Fun 

Affirm Your Love 

Give Special Gifts 

Be Patient 

Watch Your Words 

Develop Rituals 

Purposes 

To Teach Love 

Communicate with God 

To Communicate with Others 

To Heal 

To Give Your Relationship to God 

To Practice Courage 

To Have Faith 

Stand Together in light 

To Experience Joy 

To Know Peace through the Acceptance of God’s Will 

To Remove All Barriers to Love

Christine, a veteran English teacher and trained counselor, started her publishing career in 1986 when she was completing a pre-doctoral program. at the University of Massachusetts. Education articles began appearing in The English Journal and other educational journals.
Christine A. Adams has over two million pamphlets and books in print. One very successful book with Abbey Press is an illustrated Elf Help Book, entitled One Day at a Time Therapy, which has sold over 500, 000 copies. ‘Foreign Publishers can contact Christine A Adams directly at [email protected].
Christine A Adams is now published in 42 Foreign Countries! England, Taiwan, Belgium, Indonesia, Brazil, Germany, Spain, Portugal, Norway, Austria, Netherlands, Denmark, South Africa, India, Sweden, Philippines, Italy, Japan, France, China, Korea, Thailand, Poland, Russia, Hungary, Vietnam, Latvia, Egypt, Slovenia, South Korea, Netherlands, and Denmark.
For the next twenty years, Chris Adams continued to publish articles, pamphlets, and several books on issues of addiction, relationship, spirituality, education and grief therapy.