A practical, philosophical guide to understanding and overcoming heartbreak.
Everyone experiences heartbreak at some point in their life. Advice can be heard to receive with a broken heart, and it tends to focus on letting time do the healing. This consoling and encouraging guide from The School of Life presents a refreshing perspective on heartbreak, arguing that a more nuanced understanding of our pain can help us along the path to healing.
Through history, psychology, and a little philosophy, Heartbreak teaches us how our responses to abandonment are formed, what the best way to think about an ex might be, and how to envision future relationships when we are in the midst of despair. We come away feeling less alone, consoled that our suffering will have an end, and intrigued by the endless subtleties of relationships.
- A PRACTICAL GUIDE: to understanding and overcoming heartbreak.
- PART OF THE SCHOOL OF LIFE’S ‘LOVE’ SERIES: focusing on the joys and sorrows of relationships.
- A PHILOSOPHICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH: to life’s innumerable heartbreaks.
Table of Content
- Introduction
- Why Did They Leave Us?
- ‘Unfair Dismissal’ in Love
- The Psychology of Our Exes
- Why Did We Pick Them?
- Attachment Theory—and Break-Ups
- How Not to Be Tortured by a Love Rival
- How to Break Up
- How We Can Be Heartbroken Even Though They Haven’t Left
- The Wider Context of Our Sorrow
- Why We Require Poor Memories to Survive
- Our Lover Was Not Unique
- The Consolations of Friendship
- The Benefits of a Broken Heart
About the author
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