Penulis: Margaret C. Conkling

Margaret Cockburn Conkling (1814 – unknown) was an eminent figure in the 19th-century literary circles. Not much is detailed about her personal life, and as a woman writer during this period, she faced the societal constraints that veiled many women”s accomplishments in obscurity. Nevertheless, Conkling emerged in the literary scene with noteworthy contributions. Her work, “The American Gentleman”s Guide to Politeness and Fashion or, Familiar Letters to his Nephews” (1847), captures the quintessential elements of gentlemanly behavior and the codification of manners and fashion which resonated deeply with the social decorum of the time. Although branded as a guide for young men, its reflection on cultural mores and its impact on social interactions offers a window into the values of antebellum America. Conkling”s prose is characterized by its clarity, prescribed etiquette, and moral overtones, reflecting the period”s literary style imbued with didacticism. This book, while a seminal work on 19th-century etiquette, also encapsulates the cultural ethos of an age that valued a stringent social code. Conkling”s contribution to literature reaches beyond mere etiquette instruction; her work presents a comprehensive exploration of the social fabric of her era, positioning her as both a chronicler and shaper of social conduct in American literary history.