Men are told they must earn their manhood. Society has dozens of misguided suggestions, from sexual conquest to a big bank account to six-pack abs. Even in churches, men seek self-assurance through spiritual performance. But all these efforts fail because men are trying to win the approval of their peers, wives, fathers, or even God Himself – leaving them isolated, burnt out, and confused.
Would you like to feel secure as a man without competing or pretending? In this book, Jeff Kemp shows you what it means to receive your identity as God’s son and learn from Jesus’ perfect example of being a man. Jeff encourages you along the way, offering practical advice and transparently sharing his experience as an NFL quarterback, a husband, son, and father. You will see how receiving transforms everything in your life – from finding your purpose to rediscovering deep friendship – and defines what it means to be a real, good man. This is the way of Jesus for men.
Table of Content
Foreword by Tony Dungy
Introduction
RECEIVE
1. Blitz on Men
2. Identity Theft
3. A Man’s Journey
4. The Ultimate Man
5. Identity Found
6. Be Re-Fathered
7. The Receive Principle
8. The Essence of Manhood
9. Essential Manhood – How to Live it
TRANSFORM
10. Freedom in Forgiving
11. Strong is Humble
12. Insecure – What Are They Thinking About Me?
13. Kill the Fear and Pretending
HUDDLE
14. Friends and Mentors
15. Level 5 Friends Huddle
16. Live in the Game Plan
LIFT
17. Kill the Consumer, Be an Investor
18. Relationship Investing
19. Beating Life’s Blitzes
20. Sex, Secrecy and Dirty Bombs
21. Mission Himpossible
22. The Best Owner
Epilogue – A Reminder
About the author
Jeff Kemp is a former NFL quarterback and author of Facing the Blitz: Three Strategies for Turning Trials Into Triumphs (2015). He is the son of Joanne and Jack Kemp, a former NFL quarterback and Vice Presidential candidate. After graduating from Dartmouth, Jeff joined the Rams, making him and his dad one of just six sets of father-son NFL quarterbacks. After 11 seasons, Jeff retired to focus on his passion for families and seeing men become better friends, husbands, and fathers. He led Stronger Families, a non-profit dedicated to helping families thrive. From 2012 to 2017, Jeff served as a V.P. at Family Life, a leading ministry that supports marriages, families, and churches. He and his wife Stacy married in 1983 and have four married sons and nine grandkids. Today, Jeff speaks at conferences across the U.S., coaches leaders, and trains men in identity, relationship investing, and deep friendship. Find him at Men Huddle.com.