John Mather Austin 
Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness [PDF ebook] 
Being a Series of Lectures to Youth of Both Sexes, on Character, Principles, Associates, Amusements, Religion, and Marriage

The self-esteem fetishists who populate today’s self-help circuit often contend that pleasure and unconditional self-regard are the keys to a happy life. But in this series of classic sermons, renowned Unitarian pastor and theologian John Mather Austin asserts that it is the structure supplied by self-imposed limits, responsibilities, and a commitment to serving others that makes life truly meaningful. A helpful read for young people just getting started in life, or for any reader who is contemplating a fresh start.