Oh, Lords! is about two women sharing their dating stories, dating glories, and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. Oh, Lords! Who We Date, Why We Date Them, and What We’ve Learned is the only book of its kind to discuss dating in the context of archetypes, ‘Lords’, through the eyes and experience of the authors.
You will meet the Lords: Lord Journeyman, Lord Contradiction, Lord FOMO, Lord Layaway, Lord Self-Absorbed, Lord At Your Peril, Lord Good Guy, Not MY Guy, and Lord My Guy. These are the men, the archetypes, that litter the landscape of the dating world, and when you see them for who they are, you might start making different choices about who you spend your time with.
You don’t have to be dating to find the humor, insight, community, and reminders of your triumphs and turning points. Join entrepreneurs Jes Averhart and Terresa Zimmerman on this wildly entertaining and insightful journey through their dating lives.
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Dedication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .v
Preface . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ix
1. Jes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1
2. Terresa . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8
3. Lord Journeyman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .15
4. Lord Contradiction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23
5. Lord FOMO . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .32
6. Lord Layaway . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42
Blooper: Poof! He’s Gone . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .56
Blooper: Linked In . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .58
Blooper: Charles-er, maybe Chuck . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .60
Blooper: Tom Petty . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .62
Blooper: Can You Pick Me Up? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .64
Blooper: Dive vs. Jump . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .66
Blooper: I Love You . . . Ri ght Now . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .68
Blooper: Att orney Match . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .70
Blooper: What NOT to Do on a Date
with a Rock Star-or Anyone Else . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .72
Blooper: How Can I Get Hi s Number . . .
For My Friend . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .74
Blooper: Your Friends Sound Great . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .76
Blooper: Pride for $1, 000 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .78
7. Lord Self-Absorbed . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .81
8. Lord At -Your-Peril . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .92
9. Lord Good Guy, Not MY Guy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .110
10. Lord My Guy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .122
11. Oh, Lords! My Friends Don’t Know How to Date . . .137
12. We Have Questions! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .155
Acknowledgment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .161
About the Authors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .163
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Jes Averhart: I’m a Midwestern girl! I’m also a fourth-generationentrepreneur, creator of 28 Days of Reinvention and hostof Reinvention Road Trip Podcast. I’m also the mom of asix-foot, five-inch teenage boy and one-foot, eleven-inch bulldognamed Roscoe. Over the last two decades, I’ve worked with a portfolioof Fortune 500 companies and public sector organizations onthe principles of transformational leadership, self-discovery, and theart of reinvention.I realized my true passion for leadership development andwomen’s empowerment while leading partner engagement atthe American Underground, a Google for Startups Tech Hub(aka, the ‘Startup Capital of the South’ by CNBC). After spendingmuch of my time immersed in the startup scene, I was inspired toco-found Black Wall Street Homecoming, a nonprofit aimed at closingthe funding gap for Black and brown tech founders.I love writing in the mountains and on the beaches of North Carolina, cheering on the Ohio State Buckeyes, and globe-trotting.But without question, my greatest gift is my son Tre, who helps keepall things in perspective!Find me on Linked In and at www.jesaverhart.com and www.reinventionroadtrip.com