What is the real price of our modern, hustle-all-all-cost business culture?
Something terrible has happened to the American Dream. For so many entrepreneurs and professionals, the relentless pursuit of success leaves behind damaged relationships and personal life carnage in their wake.
In The Un American Dream, Carlos Hidalgo reveals his thrilling journey to entrepreneurial triumph, and the simultaneous path to rock bottom. Despite impressive accolades and remarkable professional achievements, he found himself miserable, discontent, and at risk of losing his most important personal relationships, forever.
Through authentic, honest, and vulnerable storytelling not found in most business books, Hidalgo asks us all to question, “is it really worth it?” Featuring the perspective of a variety of executives from across the country, this book reveals the truth about the cost that many pay in order to keep pace with modern business pressures. Hear from Hidalgo’s wife, Susanne, who reminds us that with every quest for success, there are real relationships impacted.
Hidalgo details the life changes he made to re-center himself, and offers a step-by-step guide for others in a similar situation to find happiness and fulfillment. The Un American Dream is an invitation to shed hustle culture, cultivate that which is life giving, and find both personal and professional success on your terms.
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Acknowledgements ………………………………………………………………………… ix
Foreword ……………………………………………………………………………………..xiii
Introduction ………………………………………………………………………………… xvii
Chapter 1: Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness?……………………..1
Chapter 2: The Difference Between Balance and Boundaries ………….. 17
Chapter 3: Skip to the End ………………………………………………………….. 31
Chapter 4: Identification, Please ………………………………………………….. 41
Chapter 5: Sacrificial or Selfish?………………………………………………….. 59
Chapter 6: A View From the Other Side ……………………………………….. 69
Chapter 7: Another Brick in the Wall……………………………………………. 99
Chapter 8: The Lies We Tell Ourselves……………………………………….. 107
Chapter 9: The Destruction of (Hustle) Porn ……………………………….. 119
Chapter 10: Are You Living Your Values? …………………………………….. 127
Chapter 11: Now and Then …………………………………………………………. 139
Chapter 12: Some Parting Words …………………………………………………. 147
My TEDx Speech………………………………………………………………………… 149
Corporate Profiles ……………………………………………………………………….. 159