A book to offer clarity and guidance when facing the difficult decision of whether your relationship has a future.
Whether we should stay in or leave a relationship is one of the most consequential and painful decisions we are ever likely to confront.
What makes the issue so hard is that there are no fixed rules for judgement. How can we tell whether a relationship is ‘good enough’ or plain wrong? How do we draw the line between justified longing and naivety? Does someone ‘better’ actually exist? Should the feelings of children be counted (and what might they be in the long term)? Could one’s partner change, perhaps with therapy, or should one assume that who they are now is who they will always be?
All these questions typically haunt our minds as we weigh up whether to stay or go. With no axe to grind or ideology to promote, Stay or Leave walks us gently through our options, opening our minds to perspectives we might not have considered.
This book aims to take the reader towards a time, presently hard to imagine, when the choice will no longer feel so agonizing. Using its lessons, we can understand ourselves deeply, consider our options, minimize our regrets and find the way ahead.
- REFRESHINGLY PRAGMATIC relationship advice for couples of all kinds.
- ROMANTIC REALISM a common sense way to look at your relationship.
- RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT for working through your fears and anxieties.
- THERAPIST-RESEARCHED draws from The School of Life’s Therapy department and their experience providing couples therapy.
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Introduction
1. Is it okay to want them to change?
2. Are we just too different?
3. Can people change?
4. Is it worth breaking up over sex?
5. What about the children?
6. Have we tried everything?
7. What if I end up lonely?
8. What if I just repeat the same mistakes?
9. Can I cope practically?
10. Who is rejecting whom?
11. Why do I continue to feel so stuck?
12. Why are they so puzzling?
13. What can you tell me to make me less scared of leaving?
14. Does it have to be a tragedy?
15. But I don’t find them awful!
16. Do I have permission to do this?
17. Are my expectations too high?
18. How can I tell them?
19. How come they seem so lovely right now?
20. Why do I feel so nostalgic?
21. Is it okay to compromise?
22. How do I find closure?
23. Are there alternatives to staying or leaving?
24. Am I making a terrible mistake?
Giới thiệu về tác giả
The School of Life is a global organization helping people lead more fulfilled lives. Through our range of books, gifts and stationery we aim to prompt more thoughtful natures and help everyone to find fulfillment.
The School of Life is a resource for exploring self-knowledge, relationships, work, socializing, finding calm, and enjoying culture through content, community, and conversation. You can find us online, in stores and in welcoming spaces around the world offering classes, events, and one-to-one therapy sessions.
The School of Life is a rapidly growing global brand, with over 7 million You Tube subscribers, 389, 000 Facebook followers, 174, 000 Instagram followers and 166, 000 Twitter followers.
The School of Life Press brings together the thinking and ideas of the School of Life creative team under the direction of series editor, Alain de Botton. Their books share a coherent, curated message that speaks with one voice: calm, reassuring, and sane.
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